A few weeks ago I posted about the two interesting women that I met at Blogher.  I detailed how it was instant blog love for Poppy Buxom.  Today I’ll tell you about the awesomeness that is Blackbird.  Her blog is Say la Vee, Life in an urban town. Three great boys,16,19 and 25, one tall gorgeous husband, and a job in the big city.  It is not exclusively a fashion blog.  She writes a lot of style related posts, but also a great amount about life as well.  She is one very stylish lady.  She is also camera-shy.  No that isn’t accurate.  She purposely avoids the camera, but is anything but shy.   So I have no pictures of her personal style.  I guess I could have taken a picture of her with no head, but it didn’t seem right.  At the last big Blogher party, Sparklecorn,  she wore lovely cropped black pants and top (think Audrey Hepburn in Funny Girl),  a great black (or grey it was dark and had been drinking) open front swing style sweater.  It all matched her Anna Wintour* bob  and black rimmed glasses perfectly.  Blackbird is a woman who knows herself and her sense of style.   And for someone who is still a beginner in the art of colour, I love that most of her wardrobe is made up of black and grey.  

* I hesitate to compare  Blackbird to Anna Wintour because the Vogue Editor comes off hard and cold. And Blackberry is a warm, charismatic woman.  But the comparison is the easiest way to give you a visual of her hair – since she wouldn’t let me take a picture of it.

When I got home from Blogher I immediately signed up to follow her blog via email.  And so far she never fails to make me smile, and usually laugh out loud (and I write that in full because she deserves it).  Her posts are sometimes like a stream of consciousness in photos.  Or today it was a Doonesbury cartoon.  For someone who does not take pictures of herself she love photos and is a lovely photographer.  And I love the unique ways she takes pictures of herself without showing her face.  This one is a favourite, showing how she had to layer because it was so cold her Cape Cod vacation (for the record she is wearing  undershirt and pants, black linen dress, black cardigan, chambray shirt, Campers and a German Road closed sign to hide her face).  And scroll to the bottom of this hilarious one to find her in a perfectly silly hat.

Heading down to Seattle with my Mom for a couple of days – well actually heading to seattle to pick up my Mom and then doing some shopping.

The items on my shopping list:

  • Black converse – still on my list since the stylist helped me with the wardrobe intervention
  • Trouser jeans – also still on the list since spring, but I didn’t see much point in looking for them during the summer
  • An animal print top or sweater – I love a touch of animal print and it is big for fall, I’m thinking a cardigan, but we’ll see.

I’ll also be keeping my eye out for dresses.  Something dressier than can become a classic in my closet for years to come.  And of course I always love great fall day dresses.

So I will admit right up front I have not yet watched the Emmy telecast.  I had tickets to the Blue Rodeo concert in Stanley Park tonight.  And yes, Jim Cuddy and Greg Keeler take precedence.  And I trust my PVR will save it for me to watch later in the week.

In the meantime I have reviewed the online photos of many of lovely ladies over 40  who were nominated, presented or just looked fantastic walking the red carpet.  I have some favourites (I usually do).  How about you?  Please let me know in the comments which ones you love and which ones should fire their stylists.

Overall the Emmy fashion is never quite as luxurious or stunning as the Oscars.  The stars of Television usually wear gorgeous dresses in early fall appropriate rich colours and texture. The over 40 set usually plays it a little safer than the young starlets.   This year was no different, with lots of eggplant, navy blues and black on the red carpet.  There was also a continuation of the pale pinks and taupes from the spring award show season.   And a new trend for patterned dresses, some worked.  Some didn’t.   Thankfully there was the odd shot of colour.

My favourite this year may be coloured by my love of Glee.  But I thought Jane Lynch looked stunning.  In the past she has downplayed her red carpet fashion.  But last night she dressed like the the Emmy winner she is.  At the bottom of my list in the “WTF” category was Rita Wilson.

I am also going to point out that there are a number of women who looked fantastic on the red carpet, who are just a year or two shy of the “dreaded” Fashion Forward 40 club.  These include Julie Benz (Dexter and Angel), Jessalyn Gilsig (Glee), Brooke Burke (Dancing with the Stars) and Amy Poehler (too many to mention).

Photo sources: WWD, InStyle and TMZ

While at Blogher there was a lot of swag. But the best promised swag was at the Mouthy Housewives party. Now I will admit I crashed said party.  My friend Gwen (aka @leftcoastmama) was invited and had RSVPd. She didn’t want to go alone, so I was happy to tag along.   She showed her invite and they welcomed both of us no questions asked.  There were great cocktails and a crazy squishy ball game. 

But the best part of the party was that LG was a sponsor and promised each attendee a LG Kompressor vacuüm.  We happily filled out their form.  But at the same time were skeptical that us Canadian girls would ever see our vacuum cleaners.   Vacuuming to me is the most HATED of housework.  So anything that makes that easier for me is GOLD.

Fast forward a few weeks and I’m busy trying to vacuum up 3 weeks worth of vacation cat hair off my low pile (aka cat hair eating velcro) carpet.  I’m sweating like crazy from the mini heat wave and cursing my vacuum cleaner.  Last spring parts of the wheels started breaking off. So now it is like pushing an 80 year with a walker around my house or driving a car with flat tires down a gravel road.  It also doesn’t seem to want to suck anymore.    We bought it used on craigslist and it lasted a miraculous year before its ultimate death – not bad all things considered.

A snazzy new vacuum cleaner delivered to my door by LG would make my life sooooo much better in many ways,  but mostly because it would mean new shoes…. let me walk you through the logic.

  1. Hubbie will be so impressed that my blogging actually got me a vacuum cleaner he might agree that I deserve a little “treat”. 
  2. We need new tires for our car, a new kettle (which also broke during the heat wave) and a new vacuum cleaner.  Apparently hubbie thinks he can fix the kettle.  But according to my hubbie the tires MUST be purchased soon and apparently they MUST be purchased NEW.   So that would mean either continuing to push the old lady vacuum around my house or buying another used one.  Which will likely break in 6 months.   So hubbie will be focused on saving any money we can so we can buy a new one… thus he’ll be watching my spending.  A new “free” LG means he won’t be as worried about money.
  3. My husband LOVES anything new and electronic.  And as a “Big Bang Theory” type he would get very excited about checking out how the vacuum cleaner works on different types of dirt/surfaces.   So he will be vacuuming all the time.   And a husband doing the housework means more free time for me. 
  4. I find a husband willingly doing housework (and specifically my host hated task) very sexy.  And when hubbie is getting some he doesn’t pay much attention to bags coming into the house or the visa bill.

So that means no money worries + more free time for me + husband getting some = SHOES!!!  Or maybe a new pair of jeans.

So LG find a way to send those vacuum cleaners to us Canadian BlogHer girls.   I really don’t mind paying some  Canadian duty if it means a new pair of shoes – oops I mean an awesome new vacuüm cleaner!  Am I a swag whore?  Or maybe just a shoe wore!

Last year one of my most stylish friends send me an invitation to a home jewelery show.  I was surprised as I thought of jewelry home shows a bit conservative. I had attended several Fifth Avenue shows in the 90s, even hosting one.   But my girlfriend  raved about Stella & Dot. Unfortunately  I wasn’t able to make it to her event. So it took me another 6 months, at my friend’s baby shower to experience their product.  I was once again surprised.  It was modern. It was fun.  It was stylish. It felt like something I’d buy at a local boutique.  Essentially stuff I wanted to buy. But I want to see more first, which means I’d have to attend or host a Stella & Dot party.  

What do you think about home jewelry shows?  Do you attend them? Would you host one?  Do you have any favourite home show jewellery brands?   Would you attend a Stella & Dot event?  Should I host an event to check them out? 

No formal poll widget. Please use comments or email me at tracey at fashionforward40 dot com with your thoughts.

Photo Credit: people.com

 Back in the 80s my Mom used to wear a lot of Liz Claiborne.  She was a groundbreaking designer in the day, with her bright matching separates for professional women.  Liz’s favourite colour was red and her collections showed her love of colour.    She was the first woman to head a company to join the Fortune 500.  I used to borrow my Mom’s clothes all the time.  In the 90s when I started to work in the advertising business I bought a few pieces of my own.  To me her line had practical outfits for  professional women.   

As I have become more mature I would have assumed I would have grown into my own Liz Claiborne  collections. But they didn’t seem to change with the times.   I wanted great pieces, that I could mix and match.  Not matching separates.  So their clothes became less relevant for me.  So I went to their competitors.  My Mom slowly did the same for her own reasons.  

This week it has become clear that the current Executives at Liz Claiborne really have lost their way with this iconic brand.   The brand has now essentially been taken over by JC Penney.  And in Canada it has been licensed to the Trimera Group.    

Two years ago they tried to do an about-face to re-brand Liz Claiborne as a young brand. Isaac Mizrahi was brought in to design the brand.  From what the Wall Street Journal has to say it sounds like the Isaac experiment was expensive and not very successful (likely costing them Macy’s as a customer).   I do know that the Issac line at least had some energy and colour.  Unlike the new JC Penney line which is drab and really rather lacklustre.   

So what happened?  I think they failed to stay relevant to their core customer as they aged. At the same time they failed to lure the next generation as they matured into professional women.  The company says that older women just aren’t spending on their clothes. And I admit there are some years for those women who have children when we may live in “mom” jeans.  But we still love style and are willing to spend for the items that speak to us and fit our lifestyle.  

It pains me greatly because I love the Liz Claiborne Creative Director Tim Gunn. Now obviously I just know Tim from his TV persona.  But he appears to understand what is relevant in style and for different target audiences.  So it even sadder for me to see them sink to this level.   I think that Macy’s made the right move in walking away from the brand.  

What about you?  Did you ever wear Liz Claiborne – either your own or borrowed from your mom?

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I promised to post photos of my new red Anthropologie top and Loft denim blazer.  I wore them today.  I wasn’t planning on wearing a blazer today. But I got ready to head out the door and realized that fall had suddenly descended on Vancouver, so I added the blazer with a nice little vintage flower pin for fun. 

 

It has been a crazy week and I haven’t been able to finish getting all my SATC bus tour photos done. So here is a photo of me from the Sparklecorn party at BlogHer in New York.   @leftcoastmama went to the washroom and I took a seat to cool down. I might have gotten a bit bored. And I might have had a few bevvies! 

Hey fashion is fun.  And I can’t take myself too seriously.

I had the best laid plans for shopping while I was at Blogher10 in New York City – drop luggage at hotel, hit subway to Century 21, grab a bite to eat, find the Camper store in SOHO, and then get lost in SOHO.  I even  test drove my shoes a few weeks in advance (the black Fly London wedges) to make sure they wouldn’t slow me down.      

In the end I never made it to Century 21.  A few days before my trip I realized an old work friend Tracie was flying from TO to New York at same time as me (she flew to LaGuardia, me to Newark).  We chatted at the airport and then agreed to meet up for a bit of shopping before she had to head to a  lunch meeting. Since she was not interested in the hours of work involved at Century 21, we met in SOHO.  I could always hit Century 21 later.   Well I never got to Century 21.  I just got caught up in the awesomeness  that is SOHO.   Once in SOHO I could not bring myself to leave until I had to head back to my hotel to shower and get ready for the evening’s events. In fact I didn’t even stop for lunch.   I’ll have to plan another trip to NYC to hit what friends refered to as ”Winners on crack“. 

Photo credit: Anthropologie.com

The trip started at Anthropologie.   For my Vancouver friends, it is sad that this fantastic store is only in Toronto and Edmonton.  But then again maybe it is better for my pocket-book that it isn’t.  If you are a fan of Emma Pillsbury on Glee, then you will appreciate this store’s vintage flavour and feminine esthetic.  I was happy to find some items in my size. Although I did have to take my normal 20 items into the change room to find one that fit and that I loved enough to buy.   The staff were very engaged, if perhaps a bit too in love with everything I tried on – even when it obviously didn’t fit me that well.  My friend Tracie was lucky and went home with pretty much a complete outfit.   I found one great dark red knit top, embellished with some great buttons (at right).  Photos of me in the top will follow once the heat wave has ended. 

Then Tracie went to her meeting and I hit the Eileen Fisher store.  Lots of great basic essentials for women of all sizes and heights.  Unfortunately nothing that I LOVED or that fit my pocket-book.  Plus, after the first “hello” the staff pretty much ignored me.  I might have looked sweaty but I did carry about 10 items around the store with me and then go into the change room for at least 10 minutes with nothing from nobody.  Just saying!

 

Jeans are on my list. So I entered the clearly named Jean Shop.  I didn’t realize I was walking into one of the hottest jean spots in the US,  that was featured in HBO’s series “How To Make It In America”.  They make high quality classic denim.  They were very helpful in getting me different sizes, stiffness and washes, and explaining their business.  The jeans start really stiff, but can be softened to your specifications.  They can also be given a custom wash.  They are not inexpensive jeans. But I thought if I found the perfect pair of jeans that would last for years I might invest.  Unfortunately none of the sizes that I tried really fit my figure or enhanced my best assets.  And the 0% lycra made me nervous.     

I walked into some high-end stores like Prada and Chanel.  The Prada store was pretty intimidating until you got downstairs into their little enclaves of clothes.  But that first staircase was tough to walk.  I saw a 4 block line up for a “secret” sample sale. The store front was all white, the bags leaving were all white.  I asked at a local store and they said they thought it was an Alexander McQueen sample sale.  But having seen 2 women reading wedding related materials, I think it was likely a bridal sale. Either way I don’t fit any sample sizes, so I wasn’t going to line up to find out.  

Photo credit: Camper.com

 

Photo credit: Camper.com

 

Then I wandered into the Camper Store.   If by wandering you mean made a bee line there.  I think I made the sales person nervous as I picked up about 12 pairs of shoes to try on.  But he quickly realized I was a serious customer.  Why do I love Campers?  First is the slightly quirky unique style. And second is the comfort.  I bought two pairs of sandals on sale. The first were brown.  I never buy brown. But I have noticed more and more often that a nice pair of brown sandals would be perfect.  And they came with this awesome rubber heel and sole, which makes them the second most comfortable pair of shoes I own (after my crocs). Plus they make my feet look long and lean. 

The second pair of sandals are a blue heeled sandal with leather and canvas straps that have an orange detail on the straps from their TWs line.  I couldn’t find a picture online and my feet are still blistered and non-photo worthy.   And sandals just don’t photograph well without a foot in them.

I saw a crocs store in SOHO.  I took a twit pic and wondered online how SOHO could have come so far downhill.  Then later on the weekend I complemented a women on her super cute animal print high heels. She told me they were crocs.  Maybe I should have gone in that store.

I also visited a number of high end vintage/consignment stores.  Some lovely things, but little in my size.  And the authentic vintage accessories were frankly out of my price range. But such unique stores to wander in and out of, as my stomach got hungrier and my feet more tired. 

In the end the pre-shopping trip shoe testing was useless. I had failed to take into account that my feet swell when I fly and the NYC humidity. So while my Fly London wedges are super comfortable, I still came away with blisters.  In fact the conference and all its walking and standing only made my feet worse.  I had to change shoes several times a day to keep them as happy as possible. And I ended up wearing my new brown Campers home on the plane because they were the only shoes I could still stand up in. Even the thong flip flops had started to cause issues between my toes.  

Photo credit: anntaylorloft.com

 

On another day when I had a few minutes between Blogher sessions I slipped over to The Loft, which was conveniently across my hotel.  There I bought some great basics.  Cotton tank tops in purple, teal, grey and green.  A lovely charcoal grey short-sleeved cardigan. And a great fitting denim blazer.   I wish Ann Taylor would expand into Canada.   

That is pretty much it for my US shopping. Just enough to get back into the country without paying any extra duty or taxes. 
Actually I did buy one more thing. But that should be part of the Sex and the City tour post.  To come later this week. 

While I was at the Martha Stewart Living party in NYC I walked by a group of women and heard  ”and she was buck naked.”  Well like any good Canadian girl I stopped and said “I’m sorry this conversation sounds too interesting not to join you.”  And I am so glad I  was so nosey because I met the most interesting women -  Poppy Buxom and Blackbird.  Poppy’s blog is The Beauty Boomer - They’ll have to pry the lipstick out of my cold, dead hand.”  Now that tagline tells you a lot about why I instantly liked this woman.    We had a lovely discussion about pointy toed shoes, bras and other undergarments required for women with certain assets and of a certain age.   And any woman who can get her husband to wear a Lily blazer has a sense of style to match her sense of humour.       

Poppy Buxom looking fresh in the NYC heat in a turquoise/lime green cotton lawn Lilly Pulitzer tunic

 

Poppy also blogs style and beauty for Blogher.   You can follow her on twitter at @poppybuxom.   More on Blackbird in a later post, because while in life the women seem to be inseparable I think they are worthy each their own post. 

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